I Dont Want To Be A Virgin Any More
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Arriving as a fresher last year I was nervous of sticking out like a sore thumb for being a virgin. On the contrary, many people were — and still are — like me. Not once has anyone made me feel uncomfortable or embarrassed. In fact, my biggest enemy was myself.


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Anonymous 1. Report Thread starter 12 years ago 1. Well, I am a female at college and people that know me in everyday life view me as a "good girl" or "snow white" or whatever.

I'm quite a bright student and very quiet and that's the way it's been for a while, so I'm so used to so it's hard to change. But it seems like I'm surpressing a huge part of myself by staying on the "straight and narrow celibate life". I have a very high sex drive and masturbation just doesn't do anything for me anymore. My body is telling me I'm ready but I have to keep it under control cause it just doesn't go with my exterior persona. I don't flirt with guys, as the college me just doesn't do that.

But when I go away from home I act like a completely different person.

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I'm carefree and less uptight, and I much prefer that me to the everyday me. It's like I have 2 sides to myself But the problem is if I lose it to some guy in a club, I'm aware that it probably wouldn't be gentle and it would physically hurt.

But I don't have the time or energy to get a boyfriend as I don't see the point as we go our seperate ways in the near future and I also get bored of people when I get too close to them, like I get uncomfortable when I get too close to friends for example. I just want meaningless sex with someone I'll never see again to satisfy my urges but it's abit difficult when you're a virgin and I don't want people I know to find out Not what you're looking for? Badges: Report 12 years ago 2. Report 12 years ago 3.

You'll regret it if you go with a randomer in a club, as a virgin or not, its most likely to be a crap experience. And couples who then go their seperate ways - that's life, so make friends with guys and see if anything develops. Report 12 years ago 4. You sound like you just need to let your hair down a bit at college, you can still be a good student and have a bit of a flirt here and there.

Report 12 years ago 5. You really need to put in the time to get a caring boyfriend, and TBH a boyfriend could take as little as a week, all depends how forward you are. Report 12 years ago 6. NW86 Badges: Report 12 years ago 7. Just get drunk in a club and pull some guy, if you're that bothered about losing it, and being drunk should mean it won't hurt so bad.

Report 12 years ago 8. OP: ignore all the losers saying "wait for someone special" they are delusional.

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Sure, solves her virginity problem, but then she has a whole new problem, being a slut.


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