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In this pandemic year, many Americans are focused on how to have a socially distanced romantic dinner or Valentine lonely women the perfect date night at home. One is that everyone is seeking a romantic relationship. The second is more value-laden: Living in a long-term romantic, sexual partnership is better than living without one. This fuels beliefs that those living solo are less happy, or lonelier, than couples. These assumptions are so prevalent that they guide many social interactions. The truth is that more Americans are living unmarried and without a romantic partner.


No, not just anything but to speak to the heart of every single woman in need of love and acceptance. As a single Christian womanI have had my fair share of pressure and unfair expectations some of these include:.

These may have made you upset, angry or even led to you going on dates to avoid being alone or being reminded of your single status by your ever-ticking biological clock. I need you to know you will be fine. We have to realize that love is Valentine lonely women True Love for the Single woman in need of love. I need you to know there is only one kind of Valentine lonely women that matters and we need to be deeply rooted in this love. That is the only way we can flourish at times like this and in every season of our lives. It is this love that gives us peace when our hearts are troubled.

This love allows us to celebrate and be happy for others and turns down feelings of envy, inadequacy or unhealthy comparisons. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.

Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. I know it seems easier said than done. I know you have heard these things before and probably say it to yourself but the are the constant springs we need in our well of life.

Even as we navigate life as single women, I pray you remember these four things to refocus your mind and heart on the things that matter. In a world that defines singleness in unflattering terms, it can be easy to allow these definitions determine our worth and Valentine lonely women. Unfortunately, some of these lies have also filtered into the church.

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But here is an incontrovertible truth: you are enough! You are the daughter of the Most-High God and you matter to him. Never forget that! He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal of the Holy Spirit. Titus Proverbs But somehow, this has been turned into Valentine lonely women waiting game where Christian women wait patiently for the men to find us. The idea of searching presupposes that you are actually living life.

Not at all. I am advocating that you live your life regardless of whether there is a man searching for you or not. Jeremiah A blogger friend, Summershares a candid post about being a single woman in living and not in waiting. I hope you get to read it and are encouraged. Yes, you get a post and a confession, too.

You may agree with me but the question is why?

Why have so many people decided to settle for less than they are worth just to be amongst the chosen ones? Especially Christian men and women who should know better. Why are we being led by the world rather than setting the standards? I would usually respond with an affirmative no. However, one particular year, I received a few gifts and this made me popular, happy but also uneasy at work.

These days, we surreptitiously praise women with suitors not carrying the sort of men they are and ignore the women Valentine lonely women have none, even if they had decided against dating the wrong men. That would have been the biggest regret. Neither should we focus or compare our lives with those on social media who seem to have it all. Nothing is ever as it seems. You may realise this too late and may be impossible to turn things around.

Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. James Which means that things will not be perfect once you start dating or get married. The devil will only be waiting to pounce on this new chapter of our lives. This also means that if we entered into dating, courtship or marriage for the wrong reasons then it will be more difficult to triumph.

You can choose to use it as another day to be kind, to be supportive, to be selfless and more so, to live boldly for our king. Encourage them and remind them of these truths. You may also Valentine lonely women to have fun with your friends. Here are 20 fun things you can all do. At the end of the day, remember you have the choice and this can never be taken from you. You matter to God and you are enough.

I know I have said a lot to you today but these were things I needed to tell you.

This post is beautiful! I wish I had read something like this when I was single! It would have been such an encouragement!

Thank you, Kristin. It has been a blessing. I absolutely love this! I had many, many years as a single woman. I remember vowing when I found my life partner, that I would remember the struggle and many years I prayed for him when things get tough.

It is so true that a partnership is just the next phase of our lives. I wanted to pass on a book that helped to change my life and find my soulmate: It is the first book on this list, The Soulmate Secret. Thank you so much, Alexandra, for your kind words and for sharing the resources.

I will check it out. I love this!! You are awesome!!

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Blessings to you! Absolutely lovely. I absolutely agree, Amy. Our peace and happiness matters, especially if we know that is not the person God has for us. Love every Valentine lonely women you made in this post. I hope more single women read this! Thank you so much, Iz. I do hope more single ladies will realise that marriage is not the answer to their problems but God. You make some great points here! Your message should really encourage the single ladies out there. Thank you for starting this conversation. Hi Laura, thank you for your kind words.

We hope this is a conversation many more will be willing to engage in an honest and empowering manner.

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Surely, being without a partner can make you feel lonely—a little more when people around you are constantly sharing expressions of love and celebrating romance.


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