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Book an appointment by filling out our short appointment form so we can tailor your needs best and have the right professional reach out to you. Still have engagement ring questions? Determining the ring size for your girlfriend can seem like a decision that could hold up the whole process. Many men have come before you and pulled off this part of the process with ease.

The average ring size for most women is between a size 5 and size 7.

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We also know that the average sized woman in the U. You can go off these averages to determine her ring size without her knowing. You get the idea. Everyone is different and not every woman is going to fit in with the average. Some women also like a tighter-fitting ring, while others prefer a loose fit. If all else fails, try going with a larger ring size. Sizing up is trickier as the jeweler will need to add extra gold or other metals. She can still wear it until she decides to get it resized.

Keep in mind that rings with side stones or pave bands can be tougher to resize, so you want to be pretty set with the correct size when you purchase rings with these details. In this situation, you are the master of time. Nothing will happen until you ask your girlfriend to marry you. So plan ahead.

If you bring it up subtly in conversation over time, she might not notice. If a jewelry commercial pops up and you take it as your cue to start asking her about what kind of jewelry she likes, she might get the hint. If you can, lead the conversation — or let her take charge with your guidance.

If she comments on a jewelry commercial, saying she likes or dislikes something, take that as a cue to ask a follow up question — such as why? If a friend or family member gets a new piece of jewelry and starts showing it off, use it as a jumping point to ask subtle questions or as an opportunity to listen carefully to what your girlfriend says. If she falls asleep on the couch during Sunday football, this might be your opportunity to do the measuring yourself.

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Grab a small string of some kind and lightly wrap it around the base of her finger. When you pull it away, mark the length of the string with a piece of tape or marker. Checking her jewelry box is one of the easiest ways to determine her ring size. Just be careful. A ring she wears on her thumb or middle finger will be very different in size than the one she wears on her ring finger.

It might be best to take in a few different rings from the jewelry box and have the jeweler get the average size.

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Or, take notice if she sometimes wears a specific ring on her ring finger, and use that one for measurement! Trace out the ring on a piece of paper, and bring it to a jeweler for sizing! You can do two things here. The first option is to grab a bar of soap — the hotel mini bars are the perfect size — and push the ring down into the soap to get an imprint.

The second option is use wax, and to push the ring over a candle stick. When the ring stops, make a mark on the candle stick. If neither of these options seem like they might work, trace the ring. Get a piece of paper and a pencil — be sure to use a pencil, as a pen could ink onto the band of the ring.

How to secretly determine ring size

Lay the ring on the paper and trace the inside circumference of the ring. The jeweler will be able to size the ring from your tracing. Try slipping her ring onto your finger. Mark on your finger where the ring falls. Now head to the jeweler and let them measure the mark to determine the size of the ring you tried on. Mom also might be able to ask her more directly without it seeming like an out-of-place question. Other engaged or married girlfriends can be especially helpful.

You might even be able to encourage them to make a day of it. Have the women go shopping and conveniently end up at a jewelry store, where they can try different rings, and her girlfriends can determine what size ring your girlfriend wears. Do you have a buddy who is also planning to propose?

Have him ask your girlfriend for help.

1. “why aren't you answering me?!” (the aggressive text)

If you think you could get away with it, you might even tell your girlfriend you want to pick out a ring for someone else, such as your mother or grandmother, and have her go along to help out. By cleverly disguising a question about finger size into a game, you can get your girlfriend to spill the beans on her ring size.

Tell her you heard that dividing a shoe size by two and adding three equals the size of your ring finger. While you look at things in the case, the jeweler can offer to pull out some rings.

Your girlfriend might not be able to turn down the chance to try something sparkly on her finger! The bonus here is that you get to give her a special gift and find out her exact ring size at the same time.

The gaudier, the better. Try to get her to in and you might get her to slip one on her ring finger. If you think you know her ring size but want to double check, buy a costume jewelry ring.

2. “who's that guy?!” (the jealous text)

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