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I remember the day after, when my flatmate asked me how it went. I beamed at her over my cup of tea. I met that man about 10 years ago. Millions of other people. Our lonely little hearts are very big business. Online dating may appear to be the swiftest route to love, or something like it.

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Once upon a time, internet dating was a vaguely embarrassing pursuit. Who wanted to be one of those lonely hearts trolling the singles bars of cyberspace?

These days, however, the New York Times Vows section —famous for its meet-cute stories of the blissfully betrothed—is full of couples who trumpet the love they found through Ok Cupid or Tinder. Today an estimated one-third of marrying couples in the U. Locking eyes across a crowded room might make for a lovely song lyric, but when it comes to romantic potential, nothing rivals technology, according to Helen Fisher, PhDa biological anthropologist, senior research fellow at the Kinsey Instituteand chief scientific adviser to Match.

Online dating is the way to go—you just have to learn to work the system. Seven years ago, I ed up for Match. But at 44, I started to realize that if I want a companion before Social Security kicks in, I have to leave the couch.

Do a Google image search with his photo to see if it links to a Facebook or Instagram. And if he tells you he lost his wallet and needs a loan? I want you to be on the site at least three hours a week.

Tip: Whenever I meet someone for the first time, I drop a pin and let a friend know where I am. One possible explanation, offered by Justin Lehmiller, PhD, research fellow at the Kinsey Institute and author of Tell Me What You Wantis that men tend to overestimate the sexual interest of women they casually encounter, so they may assume the "gift" will be welcome.

And if they occasionally get a positive response, they may figure it can't hurt to try again.

Logging on for love

Hoffman looks at my photos and nixes the corporate hehot and mirror selfie. Mirror selfies often give off an air of vanity. Agreed—as a curvy girl, I want to avoid first-date surprises. I skip quirky. The reality is Who knows?

Get what you want.

Tip: I try to appreciate the bad dates. The craziest nights are your best stories. As in fast food? But then—success!

We have a short phone call, as Hoffman recommends, to set something up. You find someone great and think, Am I going to be on the next episode of Catfish? They're fun! They vanished.

Let him disappear and make way for the partner you deserve. On the day of the date, I meet him at a restaurant.

He's sweet, too, talking about his grandma, and we follow dinner with drinks. I realize I got lucky, that this was the dating equivalent of finding a magical unicorn.

But whatever happens, it feels good to be back in the game. I decide to message Mr. Meet 9 people. Our brains are best equipped to handle five to nine options—any more, and we go into cognitive overload. Pick nine, meet in person, then take a break while you get to know at least one.

Finding love shouldn't be a full time job.

Set 3 deal-breakers. You find the right one when you focus on needs: communication, mutual respect. Give it 3 dates. Attraction is important, but if someone meets your needs, you may find the attraction follows. Happn This geolocation-based app shows you well-matched users who are close by; check your Timeline to find hot prospects who have recently crossed your path.

Plenty of Fish Cast a really wide net on this free site with more than million users; quiz lovers will dig the cheekily revealing questions about relationship needs and seduction styles. This story originally appeared in the February issue of O. Your Best Life.

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